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Psychology says that the happiest people after 70 aren’t those who find purpose—they’re those who stop asking for self-justification every day and demand permission to exist without producing, achieving, or proving that their happiness is something they’ve been waiting for all along.

My father-in-law turned 71 this year and isn’t doing anything productive by the standards I spent my thirties worshiping. He goes to the market. He drinks coffee with his friends. He’s been working with a shed in the yard about…